toxicnebulae:

hey guys I’ve got some ideas:

  • instead of donning fat suits for a day, LISTEN TO AND BELIEVE FAT PEOPLE WHO DESCRIBE THEIR EXPERIENCES
  • instead of pretending to be a woman on a dating site, LISTEN TO AND BELIEVE WOMEN WHO DESCRIBE THEIR EXPERIENCES
  • instead of wearing a hijab for a day, LISTEN TO AND BELIEVE MUSLIM WOMEN WHO DESCRIBE THEIR EXPERIENCES
  • instead of trying on being part of an oppressed group like it’s a costume, DON’T

(via imperiology)

asifthisisme:

Gay marriage finally legal in UK. Rainbow flag over British government offices to celebrate today. A good day.

asifthisisme:

Gay marriage finally legal in UK.
Rainbow flag over British government offices to celebrate today. A good day.

(via imperiology)

fattyforever:

My bed head glamour is on a whole new level now.

fattyforever:

My bed head glamour is on a whole new level now.

fuckyeahtattoos:

Sedda inspired piece done by Chris @ Silver Needles, Southend, UK. Instagram @bintt

Wow, that’s actually really cool!

fuckyeahtattoos:

Sedda inspired piece done by Chris @ Silver Needles, Southend, UK. Instagram @bintt

Wow, that’s actually really cool!

I think that you’re my best mate.

(Source: kdelario, via fatandmoody)

allaboutmary:

Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe

allaboutmary:

Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe

(Source: blog.studenti.it)

Anonymous asked: What can I do to be a less suckish FAAB non-binary person towards transwomen? I would also like to apologize that we in general pretty much suck. I love your blog and how you calmly state your position and rationally back it up. <3

skysquids:

well, i think the same things that we do to support anyone we share community with but have social power over:

  • listen when trans women speak.
  • believe what trans women say about our own needs.
  • understand that we don’t always state things in a way that comes across as rational or calm.  trans women are dying all the time and shouting / anger is a totally appropriate response to this situation.
  • think about what you’re doing.  if its not something that trans women, and particularly trans women of color, are excited about or interested in, maybe consider supporting them in their projects instead.
  • center the people who are most at risk and most suffering from oppression.  this means housing, jobs, healthcare and support for trans women should be the cornerstones of trans activism - along with the things that trans women in your community state are the most pressing goals.
  • support us, back us up, stand up for us.  even when its a popular queer who’s abusing us.  even when we’re a mess.  we’re usually gonna be a mess.

I love this.